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Healthy Love: How Emotional Intelligence Transforms Business and Life with Steven Goldhar

• Amber Stitt • Season 3 • Episode 6

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🎙️ Welcome to a transformative episode of Pathways with Amber Stitt—recorded live at the Unleash Your Superpower conference in Delray Beach, Florida! 

💡 In this special "Pathways Unleashed" edition, Amber sits down with renowned entrepreneur, coach, and bestselling author Steven Goldhar.

💪 In this honest and inspiring conversation, Steven opens up about his journey from entrepreneurial success to personal struggle—overcoming physical, emotional, and financial setbacks to emerge stronger, more compassionate, and deeply aligned with his authentic self.

🔹 What you’ll hear in this episode:

🛤️ Steven’s journey of rediscovering his true self after burnout, illness, and financial hardship.

🦸 The power of embracing sensitivity as an entrepreneur and why being vulnerable is actually a superpower.

🏥 How Steven navigated health challenges and used them as a catalyst for transformation.

👩‍❤️‍👩 The core principles behind “Healthy Love” and why emotional intelligence is crucial for personal and professional fulfillment.

😍 Real talk about self-love, conscious leadership, and building authentic relationships—at work and at home.

✅ Actionable tips on living authentically, shutting down “impostor syndrome,” and attracting the right people and opportunities into your life.

🤝 How you can work with Steven and get involved in the Healthy Love community.

📽️ To watch this podcast: https://youtu.be/h1k1kxA9uLU 

🔗 To Learn More And To Connect With Steven Goldhar:

📲 Steven's Website: https://StevenGoldhar.com

📲 Discover the Healthy Love Program: https://healthy.love

📲 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sundancemedia

🗝️ Whether you're an entrepreneur, a leader, or anyone on a journey of self-discovery, this episode will remind you that true success starts from within—and that you don’t have to do it alone.

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Steven Goldhar [00:00:00]:
What is going on? What is life really about? It has to be about some of the things that we do in life. We have to make money, we have to live, we have to provide. But how do I bring the experience into more of an alignment, that it's more sustainable, so that I'm not just chasing a dollar? I'm actually creating an experience. I'm not just saying that I'm going to be happy at the end of achieving certain things, which often doesn't really happen because then we set our sights further out and we're used to comparing at that point. And so we just compare with different people and we get more. But how can I bring a more satisfying experience in balance? What does it look like and how do I get there? And that was the beginning of my journey.

Amber Stitt [00:00:41]:
Hello and welcome to Pathways Unleashed, a special edition of Pathways with Amber Stitt. The Pathways Unleashed podcasts were recorded with special guests and the authors of "The Unleashed Entrepreneur" and "The Biohacking Entrepreneur" who were celebrating the book launches at the Unleash Your Superpower conference in Delray Beach, Florida in April 2025. Let's join the conversation.

Amber Stitt [00:01:08]:
You brought your book. Okay. Steven has his book. We're gonna talk about it today. And I didn't have the cover in front of me, so I'm so excited about that. Come on in. Well, you can put it in front of you. We can showcase it.

Amber Stitt [00:01:20]:
I know Malvina found a way to prop it up, but yeah, I didn't have my hands on the live copy, so I'm glad you brought it. Okay. So we met your lovely partner just not too long ago. We had Suzy, yes. So you guys had some fun in Miami?

Steven Goldhar [00:01:35]:
Oh, we love it. It's her first time. To me, it's like the second home.

Amber Stitt [00:01:38]:
Well, so we're gonna talk a little bit about you and the backstory, but okay, so we have Steven and I have not said your last name out loud in real life. Goldhar.

Steven Goldhar [00:01:48]:
Yeah.

Amber Stitt [00:01:48]:
Okay.

Steven Goldhar [00:01:49]:
You did it.

Amber Stitt [00:01:49]:
Awesome. So we have an entrepreneur with us, published author, bestselling author in a co-author project. And then we're celebrating our Barnes and Noble book signing. You're going to be here for that, correct? I figured you're not going to come all this way to not party and celebrate with all the amazing people. So I read this book, gosh, it would have been a couple years back when I was meeting Wendi and like, "What's the story with this community? And who are these authors?" And I was able to learn about you way back and then meet you today.

Amber Stitt [00:02:19]:
So pretty cool.

Steven Goldhar [00:02:20]:
It's great to be here with you.

Amber Stitt [00:02:22]:
Yeah, all right, so you label your chapter "Sensitive Entrepreneur". The reason I bring that up is Pathways Live. Pathways is the name of the podcast that I have. We're live in Boca right now. Is that, not to speak for you, but I think sometimes there's this persona of the entrepreneur that's just strong. And I'm not saying you're not strong, but it's just like nothing phases us.

Amber Stitt [00:02:46]:
Let's get after it. And sometimes you have to have the game face. I mean, you do, but you're uncracking this shell, so going to get to that. But what I wanted to tell you is reading about you being young. You had this spirit of life and entrepreneurship young. But then you kind of witnessed, you go on this errand and you talk about it in your book, but then you're like, "Oh, wow, okay, this is life."

Steven Goldhar [00:03:06]:
"What is this world I'm getting into? What am I expected to be when I grow up?" Yeah, it was...

Amber Stitt [00:03:11]:
You had success. You were smart, you'd start many businesses.

Steven Goldhar [00:03:15]:
Yeah.

Amber Stitt [00:03:16]:
So why it's important for our talk today is in your late 20s, things started to change. And I think this is so many people. So can you talk about this innocence of life, getting into the real world, which we're all in, and how to help someone see it's okay to feel these things are happening?

Steven Goldhar [00:03:35]:
You know, one of the biggest mistakes I think most of us have to go through as we grow up is learning how to dissociate from more and more of ourselves in order to show up and be something we think we need to be.

Amber Stitt [00:03:47]:
Right.

Steven Goldhar [00:03:48]:
And you said it correctly, we have to be stoic. We have to look like nothing's impacting us. When inside we may feel scared. We're not certain about what's going on. We're feeling we're having a huge response inside, but we can't let anybody see that.

Amber Stitt [00:04:04]:
Yeah. And that's huge. And the more people we talk with about wellness and our advocacy this week with biohacking, or it's coming to the forefront, but it was internalizing in you.

Steven Goldhar [00:04:14]:
I had, because I'm highly sensitive...There are 20% of the population who come into this world wired slightly differently so that those impacts are felt deeper. We have a lot of gifts. We're really creative in ways. We process deeply. We can take a lot of information and do some wonderful things with them. But the other side is that when something's not going right, we feel it and it impacts us even more.

Steven Goldhar [00:04:39]:
So I was forced to reconcile with that in ways that not everybody has to. Everybody feels the disconnection, we'll say, "I'm not going to be this way, I'm going to be this way and I'm going to show up for the world so that I'm successful and people want to count on me and work with me."

Amber Stitt [00:04:54]:
And provide and financials...

Steven Goldhar [00:04:55]:
But I'm going to sort of take this other set of experiences and I'm going to put them aside. And there's a cost to that. And that's what we don't learn. And the cost builds up over time. We are spiritual beings in a physical body. There's an energetic quality to us. And so imagine we're having a certain experience and we're labeling it as being something that's not safe or okay to have. So we're really giving ourselves the message that there's a big part of us that' not okay.

Amber Stitt [00:05:24]:
And there's something wrong with you.

Steven Goldhar [00:05:26]:
There's something wrong with us. Because I seeing the world in one way, but I'm not experiencing it in the way that everyone's projecting.

Amber Stitt [00:05:33]:
And that's what I wrote down: "Having a different lens."

Steven Goldhar [00:05:36]:
So I was forced to deal with that and figure out how do I bridge the two together? How is it possible? I know what people are expecting from me. They want to know they can count on me. They want to know that I can help them. They want to know that I can be there in certain ways for them. But is it possible that I could bring a certain amount of that other experience into the fold without impacting everything in a way that it falls apart? And you can. There are many conversations happening today about authentic leadership, conscious leadership. You're hearing conversations about bringing the emotional intelligence quality into our working experience. It actually is all about that, to have emotional intelligence.

Steven Goldhar [00:06:16]:
It's not something you can just read and say, "Okay, I'm going to be more emotionally intelligent." You have to experience it. It means that you're aware of all the things that are happening internally and you can decide in the moment because you've got a relationship to those parts that you can decide, how can I responsibly bring this in? How can I responsibly show up and be authentic and let people know more about what's really happening for me, add some vulnerability in and at the same time be there for myself, to support myself. And it doesn't mean you're always talking about it externally, but you know how to do it internally.

Amber Stitt [00:06:50]:
And giving yourself some grace.

Steven Goldhar [00:06:52]:
Yes, and self-love is the foundation of all of it.

Amber Stitt [00:06:55]:
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Amber Stitt [00:07:18]:
Let's talk about some of those projects you have. You've talked about them in the book, but before that, medically you had kind of not chased medical solutions, but you had some medical treatment and then you also had some hidden medical issues. And so was there a point you're like, "Something is wrong." Was it hard to find an outlet to correct it? I mean, is that a loaded question?

Steven Goldhar [00:07:38]:
That's one of the reasons I love being a coach now because I wish I had someone to hold me. I had the trifecta of it all. I had a broken down marriage which was very difficult to get through and to separate. There was a lot of stuff going on.

Amber Stitt [00:07:56]:
There's just emotions there, period. Outside of just other things going on internally, too.

Steven Goldhar [00:08:00]:
Yeah, and then my health from all the stress, not looking after myself, sort of gave in and I didn't know what happened that caused that. So I lost my health and the ability to work for a couple of years as I got treatment for heavy metal toxicity.

Amber Stitt [00:08:15]:
Yes. Okay, so you did not work during all of that time?

Steven Goldhar [00:08:18]:
Two years. And I had, at that time I had investors in my business. I had a lot of things going on and I couldn't do anything about it.

Amber Stitt [00:08:27]:
Well, I'm picturing Steven, is that chelation? And that's not something you can just sit...I mean it takes a long time, right?

Steven Goldhar [00:08:34]:
3 hours of treatment.

Amber Stitt [00:08:36]:
Yeah. So you're not able to just be bop around.

Steven Goldhar [00:08:39]:
Yeah. And you're tired afterwards. So moving heavy metals out of the body, or toxins like that has an impact that is beyond the treatment itself.

Amber Stitt [00:08:48]:
Because that goes up to your brain.

Steven Goldhar [00:08:50]:
And that's what it affected me the most.

Amber Stitt [00:08:51]:
Brain barrier.

Steven Goldhar [00:08:52]:
Yeah, so for 2 years my life sort of unraveled. I had to let go of what I was doing. I couldn't pay the debts I took on in my business, so I claimed personal bankruptcy. And I'm so much about integrity that that was a hard thing in itself. And I had to surrender to life in a way that I never had been asked to do in the past. It's really like, "Whatever this is about, whatever I'm here for, I Will accept that."

Steven Goldhar [00:09:19]:
"Whatever it looks like."

Amber Stitt [00:09:20]:
It's hard to get to that point, though, right?

Steven Goldhar [00:09:22]:
Very hard. And that's the beginning of actually opening up to something new. Like, what is it really about? What did happen to me? Like, it's where you can actually ask the questions to yourself and be curious rather than judgmental. And being hard on myself for what happened. "I didn't try hard enough. I should have done this, I should have done that." It's like, "What is going on? What is life really about?" It has to be about some of the things that we do in life. We have to make money, we have to live, we have to provide.

Steven Goldhar [00:09:47]:
But how do I bring the experience into more of an alignment, that it's more sustainable, so that I'm not just chasing a dollar? I'm actually creating an experience. I'm not just saying that I'm going to be happy at the end of achieving certain things, which often doesn't really happen because then we set our sights further out and we're used to comparing at that point, and so we just compare with different people and we get more. But how can I bring a more satisfying experience in balance? What does it look like and how do I get there? And that was the beginning of my journey, the next journey.

Amber Stitt [00:10:24]:
Part of the question is just to kind of make it fun to say, when did you unleash this success for yourself on the pathway? Was it a certain path? Sometimes it's all the pathways to get to this point with the projects you're working on lately and how you're helping people. Is that outside of all of this and getting through that medical period of time, you've been helping people for how long you've been building some things. Can you share how you're helping others?

Steven Goldhar [00:10:47]:
So I had the fortune of being connected to a therapist in Miami, Rachel Levy, who had created...sort of like almost channeled...It's so profound, the body of work that came out of her. And it's called Healthy Love. And it's a program for emotional relational education. For those that don't understand that, think of it like emotional intelligence on steroids. It's where you're really rebuilding the relationship with self. You're not waiting. You're not waiting till you break down like I did. where you got it.

Steven Goldhar [00:11:16]:
Where you got it, you're forced to ask those questions. You're going in and you're taking inventory about what's really happening, but you're doing it in a way that you're being held by other people that you can relate to. Of all walks of life. And you're saying, "Instead of hiding, or ignoring what I'm feeling, what is going on with me? What does it mean? What are my choices?"

Amber Stitt [00:11:33]:
Like a check-in. But you're talking about self-love. I think you said that.

Steven Goldhar [00:11:37]:
It's the foundation of healthy love because you can't really go and look at what's really happening. The traumas we carry, they're all different. The beliefs that we want to change that aren't working for us, the shadows that are deep within that we've forgotten about, not aware of. Until we learn to look at ourselves with more reverence, with more compassion, be able to say whatever it is, I'm just going to work with that and be more solutions oriented than focused on the problem. So knowing how to practice self-love, not just in the head, but in the heart and the body, is sort of like the beginning point of healthy love.

Amber Stitt [00:12:15]:
Yeah. We talk about focusing on talents and just looking within and that evolution of yourself. But if you're not healthy, how can you then affect and help other people if you don't have it dialed-in? And nor do we want, you know, without doing the work. We want to make sure that we're living it and not just talking to our clients about it.

Steven Goldhar [00:12:32]:
Exactly. So we have to go through it. We have to look at our own...

Amber Stitt [00:12:36]:
Because then you have the solutions. You can then help others execute.

Steven Goldhar [00:12:39]:
And so imagine if we could hold our dark side that we fear that we will not look at in any way. We put it aside, and maybe one person or two people get to ever experience that, but we can hold that, understand it, bring it into the light, let it shine with the light side of us and claim both. And it really works. And we show up with a different kind of exuberance for life. There's nothing better than I've experienced of feeling like it's okay to be me. I could come here. I didn't even prepare to talk. I used to prepare for everything because I thought I have to be perfect.

Steven Goldhar [00:13:15]:
I have to show up in the way that I've experienced.

Amber Stitt [00:13:17]:
It's a common denominator with our guests. We all are trying because sometimes you feel like you might fail if you just show up as you. But that's part of these conversations that are so important. It's not scripted. And it's just...I study you and I want you on the show because I think it's important for people to meet you. But we're all different, and that's good. It's a good thing. But going through these experiences, we need to have the ability to...

Amber Stitt [00:13:40]:
Like I was talking with Suzy about having fellowship with others. Sharing stories is so important because trauma, or not, there is something that we can give and give back. It's like a reciprocating friendship, and it's global. And there's no...like this community that we have together is really neat.

Steven Goldhar [00:13:57]:
It's beautiful. It really is. Community is a necessary component to any conscious awakening process. We really can't do this alone. Most people can. I won't say it's impossible, but for most of us, the relationship with our mind, it's not strong enough. We will just get overtaken by whatever's happening and become it. And there's no distance.

Steven Goldhar [00:14:17]:
And one of the fortunate things that happened on my way back up, sort of like these miracles in life, we also have to understand how that happens. But that's a whole other conversation about noticing and knowing how to flow with life better. But when I surrendered, the first time I ever prayed, I wasn't a big believer in religion, or God, or anything. But when the pain gets so great and I cannot see any hope, like, how is this going to change? And I'd say, "If there is a God, I promised if you help me get out of this pain, I will show up in whatever way that you need me to be."

Amber Stitt [00:14:51]:
Full surrender.

Steven Goldhar [00:14:52]:
Yeah. And it was two weeks later that I got a call from someone who I'd known, who knew my background in digital marketing and I was pioneer in that field. And he put together a program for Eckhart Tolle.

Amber Stitt [00:15:05]:
Well, that's what I was wondering after all of this, in your late 20s, 30s, going through this stuff, it was your network. You had met a lot of people in that previous life.

Steven Goldhar [00:15:13]:
Yeah, hundreds. And so this was one of those people. And it's just amazing how quickly. And they said, "You know, we need someone like you to help us launch our new digital platform for Eckhart." And so when I met him, I just connected so well with the man. I ended up spending a lot of time helping him with his company.

Amber Stitt [00:15:30]:
Yeah.

Steven Goldhar [00:15:31]:
But that gave me an in to start to understand this other side of life, to be what he calls more present with it, which I still didn't quite understand at the time, looking back. I mean, I understood it from a head perspective.

Amber Stitt [00:15:47]:
Well, let's talk about that. Because it's like, got to give ourselves some grace. And sometimes things don't make sense. And that's okay, because the stories like yours, there was this foundational seed that was planted so far back.

Steven Goldhar [00:15:59]:
Yeah.

Amber Stitt [00:15:59]:
And then if we're not showing up with who we are, then how does anyone know what we're really great at?

Steven Goldhar [00:16:04]:
Yeah.

Amber Stitt [00:16:04]:
And then here you go, having an opportunity. How am I going to figure this out? And then here comes an opportunity. Now, you did surrender, though.

Steven Goldhar [00:16:11]:
I did.

Amber Stitt [00:16:11]:
And then opportunities are coming.

Steven Goldhar [00:16:13]:
They do. And I find that in the moments of surrender, these miracles appear. So I really do believe from experience, as I went to university, I got a degree in molecular biology.

Amber Stitt [00:16:26]:
Oh, my goodness.

Steven Goldhar [00:16:27]:
I'm a scientist in my head. It's hard for people who think that way to believe in anything that we cannot experience with the 5 senses.

Amber Stitt [00:16:34]:
Sure.

Steven Goldhar [00:16:35]:
But believe me, there's a path for people like us to get there, and it requires some of the foundational work and healthy love to be able to hone-in and own the feelings that we feel more. This is part of what I do as a coach. I sit with people, help them own more of their experience to become aligned with what's really going on so they don't feel the backlash of something pulling at them all the time and screaming at them that "We're not okay!" So it feels like we're just going uphill all the time.

Amber Stitt [00:17:04]:
And that's happening naturally. But then we put ourselves in environments that just make it worse, too.

Steven Goldhar [00:17:09]:
We do. We look for things, or think that we need to be in things that are not in alignment with what's really happening on the inside. We're in conflict. We live in conflict. There's a voice inside that's telling us one thing, and then there's us thinking that we can't listen to that because we need to be going in this direction, and there's no reconciliation. So we live in that state of conflict. And it gets worse over time. It gets harder over time.

Amber Stitt [00:17:33]:
Well, because if you're studying the brain not like the traditional scientific way, but maybe like a neuroscience way, the brain matter can change, or can get worse, or better depending upon what you're adding to your life. So it's important to do the work so that the positives build on each other.

Steven Goldhar [00:17:48]:
I'm here to tell people listening that it is possible to do that kind of reconciliation. It is possible to have the success. You know what happens when you start doing this work? The relationships is the first thing that starts changing. All relationships, work relationships, personal relationships. Relationships are built on connection, trust, some level of intimacy, even if it's on surface level.

Amber Stitt [00:18:12]:
So vulnerable.

Steven Goldhar [00:18:13]:
Vulnerability is important. And so we can't do that if we don't have that kind of relationship with ourselves. It just can't happen.

Amber Stitt [00:18:19]:
Got to start at the core, the foundation.

Steven Goldhar [00:18:21]:
And then things start to shift, and with the relationships changing, more opportunities and more different types of networks where people just want to help you and be there and support you because they like who you are. They feel your glow coming from you, a realness from you that you're not afraid to be you. And a lot of people are intrigued by it. Like, "Wow, it feels so good. I can't explain it, but it feels so good to be around you."

Amber Stitt [00:18:44]:
The energy. We were talking about that earlier today, too. If you're trying to be too perfect, then it's going to cast a cloud over the real energy that you can have shine through.

Steven Goldhar [00:18:53]:
Exactly. And so it's possible, when you do this work, to come through it feeling like you are building your world again in a way that you can not only achieve things, but you can sit back and enjoy it.

Amber Stitt [00:19:09]:
There's some control in that.

Steven Goldhar [00:19:10]:
Yeah. And the relationships and the people around you strengthen. They deepen. And they're going to be asking, like, "What's changed? What's happened? Like, how can I be like that?"

Amber Stitt [00:19:18]:
It's easy. No big deal. I'm just amazing.

Amber Stitt [00:19:21]:
You're listening to Pathways with Amber Stitt for more episodes like this, plus so much more, check out the podcast page at: AmberStitt.com Let's take action together! Now, let's get back to our episode.

Amber Stitt [00:19:35]:
I'm asking people, "How do you like to work with clients? Can we work globally with you virtually? In-person? What's the best?"

Steven Goldhar [00:19:42]:
Well, most of the sessions are virtual, and it seems to work really well. And we can go through all kinds of different things together. And then being part of the Healthy Love program is something I really encourage people I work with to do, because as much as I can give them and give them that advantage of really looking deeper, closer and more quickly at what's going on. There are some things that you can only get from other people.

Amber Stitt [00:20:08]:
Yeah. That third party, we'll call it. That expert.

Steven Goldhar [00:20:12]:
Yeah. And also just the relatability factor. When you hear people, there's something in us that often thinks that we're unique and people won't understand what we're going through. And so we need to flip that on its head. And when you hear other people that are going through things that you can relate to and you really feel like, "Okay, I'm understanding the struggle. It's not unique to me." And I'm hearing how they're dealing with it, and together it's like we can come up with more ways and collaborate. And then the other part of it is being able to show up authentically with more than just me, with other people, so that we understand that we are desirable in our authentic form.

Steven Goldhar [00:20:51]:
The thing that happens to a lot of people is they recognize that there are people who love me and want to be around me more when I'm in that more authentic, vulnerable mode than before. Before, it was so superficial. It's like, depends on what I can do for them and what you can do for me. But here it's like they want to find ways to be around it and they appreciate it. And so you reprogram the beliefs that, "It's not okay to be me." And as that gets reprogrammed, you can live more at ease and enjoy life more while creating more in the flow. In a positive vibration. Your whole vibration lifts and you attract different things.

Steven Goldhar [00:21:26]:
Instead of getting what I call red light syndrome.

Amber Stitt [00:21:29]:
Right. It does happen. You're like, then the rest of your day is awful.

Steven Goldhar [00:21:32]:
Exactly. One thing after another. It's like the green light.

Amber Stitt [00:21:34]:
Don't complain about it. Here it comes. It's going to keep happening.

Steven Goldhar [00:21:37]:
And so then you realize living in that flow is real. And to get there, I have to live authentically in me, which means I have to start paying attention to what my inner parts and my body are trying to communicate with me in addition to my mind. I mean, there's nothing bad in any of it. You don't want it to get so imbalanced that we only live in our head.

Amber Stitt [00:21:59]:
Something that's kind of stemming from today and those that have families. If the adults can figure this out with people like you, that can help. This is going to be so important for the younger folks.

Steven Goldhar [00:22:09]:
Yeah.

Amber Stitt [00:22:09]:
We could prevent so much.

Steven Goldhar [00:22:11]:
If we could start a program. I just have this dream...

Amber Stitt [00:22:13]:
I'm not challenging you to a new program to roll out. But the leaders that are working with you can then be better at home.

Steven Goldhar [00:22:20]:
Exactly.

Amber Stitt [00:22:21]:
Whether it's taking care of your parents or the younger generation.

Steven Goldhar [00:22:24]:
You know what started happening with Healthy Love already? I mean, the program's been around for three years, but we have people who are bringing their children in. They're adult children. We haven't had anybody younger than, I think, 18. But not to say that, you're right. They would bring this to them, but it's changing their relationships. My own father, who's 86, is there. Suzy and I do it together.

Steven Goldhar [00:22:44]:
And so you share, it guides you on how to connect deeper together, how to work through conflict in a way that you stay connected. And that's the key. Can I learn to work through and be so aware of my own process that I don't have to project onto somebody else and get them defensive? Can I do this in a different, more responsible way so we can stay connected as we work through things?

Amber Stitt [00:23:07]:
The connection will help you get through it together, have the experience together. Then you deepen connection. It's more connection and you just fall in love even more.

Steven Goldhar [00:23:15]:
Because you can see the part of the other person that they haven't learned to accept and as they do, and you love that part...

Amber Stitt [00:23:22]:
You're not trying to change them. You're just being with them.

Steven Goldhar [00:23:25]:
Yeah.

Amber Stitt [00:23:26]:
Okay, so how can people find you?

Steven Goldhar [00:23:28]:
They can go to either Healthy.Love and learn about the Healthy Love program. They can go to myselflovecourse.com and. Or they can go to my website, StevenGoldhar.com.

Amber Stitt [00:23:39]:
And we'll have that in the show notes, too, after this week. So we're going to celebrate more in a few days here, or all week, I guess, until Sunday.

Steven Goldhar [00:23:46]:
It's just becoming an annual regular thing. I'm just loving it.

Amber Stitt [00:23:49]:
Yes. I'm so happy to meet you for real, because I haven't had a chance yet.

Steven Goldhar [00:23:54]:
Thanks, Amber.

Amber Stitt [00:23:55]:
So good. Okay. Thank you for being here.

Steven Goldhar [00:23:57]:
You're very welcome.

Amber Stitt [00:23:58]:
Thank you for joining us for this special edition of Pathways Unleashed, recorded at Owwll headquarters here in Delray Beach, Florida. Join us for more powerful conversations with real people who dare to design life on their own terms. Until next time, keep taking action on your unique path!